First time posting in this section, I'm hoping you very knowledgeable cat owners can help me!
Bit of background; we have three cats, all three are rescues. Two boys, a fat, fluffy, noisy grey aged 15 and a gorgeous, rather dim tabby/Bengal cross aged 9, and the most recent addition, a little girl also aged 9. All three are neutered.
Like all rescues the boys came with a bit of baggage but have lived with us for 2 years and are really chilled out, loving nothing more than a few cheek-scritches and the warmest spot on the sofa. They arrived separately but get on very well.
Our girl came to us about two months ago, a tiny little tortoiseshell, who had previously lived with five other cats, and is the most affectionate cat I've ever had. She's first to leap on a knee, purrs constantly and follows DH around like he's her long lost mum.
The problem is that from day one she's taken hugely against our tabby. He gave her a wide berth once we started introducing them after the first couple of weeks, but she hisses and goes for him at every opportunity. Mealtimes are the worst, as they are waiting for their food she'll pretty much launch herself at him. Yesterday she barged him out of the way when he was eating (she still had loads of food) and the boy poor was just standing there, watching her eat his food.
He's very territorial and has managed to take down every other cat in the cul-de-sac but won't fight back at her all, he just slinks off. I am so sad for him as he's such a lovely boy but he's lost his spark from the constant bullying :(
We have a Felliway but that's not done anything.
Does anyone have any experience of this and any idea how we could deal with it? Thank you!
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dickiedavisthunderthighs · 26/05/2016 14:50
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