My lovely boy is 12 years old, we've had him for just over six years, the children have always had him around.
For the last two years he has had a benign growth on his philtrum, it started off very small but has grown larger and larger, to the point where he now struggles to breathe through his nose. When.he eats the lump gets irritated and he rubs it until it bleeds, he is wheezy and sneezy a lot of the time and I feel like it's time to say goodbye.
He has tried every treatment I can afford and has also had two biopsies to try and work out exactly what the growth is. The only thing that seems certain is that it isn't cancerous.
I have booked an appointment to have him pts next week but have cancelled and rearranged the appointment at least 4 times already.
I feel like the time is right, but then I look at him when he is having a good day and it feels so wrong to end his life.
The only thing that I'm sure of is that he isn't going to get any better, I feel that I want to end it now before he gets much worse and before all of our final memories are of him being in pain and distressed.
Did you just 'know' when the time was right? I'm feeling so torn.
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ForgotThatIWasFine · 09/06/2015 12:12
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