A bit of back story. We had 3 rounds of IVF. Half way through round 2 we got BinCat. Round 2 failed but round 3 worked!
Like any pregnant woman I did't feel I could relax and enjoy the pregnancy until I had the 12 week scan. I had a 7 week scan which was fine. 3 days before my 12 week scan I started bleeding and lost the pregnancy.
We have accepted that we won't be parents but I have focused so much love onto my cat. The thing is that I just worry about losing her all the time. I daren't love her too much. I read threads on here like the poor lady whose cat was poisoned and I just worry that I will lose her in the same way.
She is an outdoor cat but we keep her in at night.
I know that this is about so much more than actually my girl but I just need to hear all your stories of cats who have lived long and happy lives.
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I don't feel I can ever just relax and love my girl, I worry I'll lose her. Tell me lovely things.
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Pipbin · 17/04/2015 22:09
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