DCat is 14 and has been getting on a bit during the last year. Coming up to Christmas she got awful breath. Took her to the vet this week - on Monday they said it looked bad but I could have her sedated and a biopsy done (was very sore so they couldn't really look much) and she had antibiotic jab and painkillers. Yesterday I took her back as a longer lasting antibiotic injection had come in. Had a more experienced vet who looked and said it's definitely mouth cancer and that basically it's up to me when she goes :(
She's still eating and is pottering around the place. He said that she won't be in excruciating pain but it's uncomfortable. He'd have been happy to put her to sleep yesterday but that was a bit soon for me (plus the children are with their dad at the moment and although they know, there needs to be goodbyes said).
I talked to him about the putting to sleep procedure and I'm hoping to get him to do it as both the cat and I felt comfortable with him. Just feel very sad. Think it will be next week some time :(
Here's a picture of her last week. Am getting all sad now which I know is daft but I'm going to miss her.
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Cat has mouth cancer. Am sad.
MirandaWest · 03/01/2015 10:57
Sorry to hear this Miranda. I had the same sad problem a few months ago with my 18 year old cat. We knew the outlook was hopeless but while he was still fairly comfortable &eating, the vet gave him steroids - initially a long acting injection (which lasted about 2 weeks, less than the vet had hoped for) and then for a short while we gave him prednisolone tablets crushed up. It seemed to take the swelling down, improve his appetite & give him a temporary boost generally. It was lovely sunny weather at the time so he lay about in the sun a lot, we made a huge fuss of him and let him eat/drink whatever he liked. He declined pretty quickly and within 3 weeks of diagnosis he was obviously struggling to eat anything despite steroids, at that point we had him put to sleep. Although very sad, it was better for being planned and not an urgent dash with a cat at death's door. Steroids might be worth a try for buying some time whilst keeping your cat comfortable but sadly it will only be a temporary effect. It is a horrid thing to happen 
She is still eating and has been consuming a lot of Dreamies (a couple of nights ago she was demanding them every 30 minutes or so 
). Also eating various tinned food and I'm sure will have tuna at some point.
I'm sorry OP. We had our beloved kitty PTS on New Years Eve. He was diagnosed with cancer in the sinus last summer. We were told he had weeks to live but he managed 6 months - we were told as long as he is eating and playing then he is fine and we would know when it was time. He had 6 months of eating whatever he wanted - smoked salmon, treats, we were even cooking him mince and bacon. He actually started putting on weight!
It's very tough to decide to say goodbye but it's the kindest thing to do. Good luck OP!
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