Don't flame me for this. We got 2 rescue cats getting on for 3 months ago now, I had my doubts from the start that they were not right for us and said as much on here and got a right roasting! One of them is basically fine with us, the other a little skittish and won't be stroked but basically ok. The problem is that neither of them will allow the children near them. One was getting a bit better until a few weeks ago until ds3 startled her and since then she goes under the bed whenever any of the children come near. The dcs have been really patient and gentle (dc3 only 2.5 but has done his best!) but are obviously disappointed that they aren't getting anywhere with them. I feel awful about it but do you think cats protection will have them back? I still feel a bit cross with them for misleading me about the cats' ages and background (they are much younger than I wanted and not from the same litter as I was initially told) and aren't they supposed to find a good match between cat and owner? Plus they have never made a follow up call to see how they are settling in, which I was told they would do after a few weeks. Am I being unreasonable??
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ImNoClownIWontBackDown · 05/12/2014 13:49
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