Is this possible?! I have the ginger boy (Scabbers) and also a tiny little tortie girl, Millie, also neutered, both 18 months or so old. The other night when I got into bed, they both woke up (lying at the foot of the bed) and Scabbers decided to grasp Millie's head and wrap himself round for a cuddle! She looked most uncomfortable (she reminds me of me!) and leapt off. This morning I was sitting down having a coffee with Millie, and Scabby leaps through the catflap with a huge vole in his mouth. Now usually it's woe betide anyone who tries to remove his kills...but this morning he dropped it at Millie's feet and lay down in a very self satisfied manner while she had fun tossing it about and pouncing. What's going on?! He was very wary when I first got her - now I think he's got a bit of a crush! Note: yes I have got too much time on my hands.
Aww - it's sweet. We had a boy cat that was in thrall to the Siamese girl cat about 3 doors down. He hated other cats and barely tolerated his own brother but he was totally mesmorised by her. He used to let her follow him through the cat flap and I'd find her asleep on the bed and him sitting about 2 feet away staring at her. It was totally weird.