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Any vet's around? Could do with some advice.

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Theresadogonyourballs · 06/11/2013 21:12

I have a neutered male cat of around 11/12 years. Always in good health until becoming diabetic a couple of years ago. No problem - we got him stabilised, he is on twice daily insulin injections and is otherwise well.
A couple of weeks ago I noticed his belly looked distended - almost like he was pregnant! I took him to my usual practice, and was seen by a new vet, she was nice, very young and very keen. She agreed the belly was very swollen, so they had him in for the day to run tests and do an ultrasound.
So - the results of the ultrasound were that both his liver and spleen are enlarged. They cannot see any tumours however, but she did say that his liver looked 'unusual', that it was 'pitted'. I asked if this meant cancer, she said possibly? His blood tests however, came back within the normal range.
I ask what next? Bearing in mind that the bill with them currently was standing at £350, which she knew we would have to pay in instalments. She said she wanted to refer him to a specialist who could give him a better ultrasound and tell us exactly what was wrong. Ok says I, but how much? At least £600. And that's just for starters.
So at this point I say, look we can't afford the specialist. He seems fine, other than the swelling - eating, drinking, peeing and pooping all normal. She seemed disappointed but gave us the ok to take him home and keep an eye on him. That was two weeks ago and he is the same. He has thrown up a couple of times, but he does that a lot anyway, due to eating too quick!
So, my question is, has anyone, (vet or otherwise), come across anything like this? Any ideas what we're in for? I have already lost one much loved cat to stomach cancer, so am well aware of the possible outcomeSad
Another reason I am reluctant to go down the road of invasive treatments, surgery etc is that he absolutely HATES going to the vet, he was a feral kitten when we rescued him, and has never been fully trusting of humans. The visit to the vet to have the tests resulted in him having to have a sedative just to have his belly shaved, and when he got home he cowered under a bed for nearly two days, so I don't want to put him through it if the end result is going to be the same regardless.
Please don't think this is just about the money - it's not. It's more we don't know what we're dealing with, so it's hard to make any decisions for him. We love him dearly, and don't want him to suffer - physically OR mentally.
Thanks for reading, sorry for the mammoth post!

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Theresadogonyourballs · 06/11/2013 21:20

Sorry, that should say vets, not vet's. Awful grammar fail!

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Lonecatwithkitten · 06/11/2013 21:43

Is he a large cat? There is a condition called acromegaly that presents a little like diabetes, but enlarged liver is a feature of this condition.
The other condition that springs to mind is cushings disease.
I operate an is getting a definitive diagnosis going to change what we do question with all my patients when discussing tests with owners.
So cushings yes there are things that can be done acromegaly no there is very little.
At the moment he is well and has a big tummy. His diabetes is stable, if you didn't want o investigate further I would consider that a reasonable decision even without financial constraints.

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Theresadogonyourballs · 06/11/2013 21:51

Hi Lonecat, thank you for replying. He's not particularly big, average sized I'd say. I'll research the two conditions you mentioned - funnily enough my old pony had cushings, but I believe it presents differently in cats? My pony was just madly hairy and a bit pot bellied. We lost him to severe colic before the cushings got too bad.
I think my vet, lovely though she was, could take a leaf from your book with regards to the wishes of the owners - she was so keen to order every test she could think of, and looked quite crestfallen when I put the brakes on. We wouldn't put him through surgery unless it was going to cure him, I couldn't cause him that much stress just to extend his life by a couple of months.
Many thanks again Thanks

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gordyslovesheep · 06/11/2013 23:46

our cat has probably brain cancer/tumor - I am not going down the road of scans and surgery - I don't think it's fair to him - like you the vet has offered (scan alone is £1000) but I just think it's too much - again for something that may not prolong his life a great deal x

I am sorry about your puss xxx

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Theresadogonyourballs · 07/11/2013 11:25

Thank you Gordy, they do break our hearts don't they? He has scoffed all his breakfast this morning, and is happily snoring on my DD's bed. I think lots of love and a dignified end when the time comes is what we will aim for. I'm sorry about your kitty too, I hope it's not too hard on you. x

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Theresadogonyourballs · 17/12/2013 13:42

Just back to update - my darling Olly was put to sleep this morning. He was doing ok up until this weekend, when he suddenly seemed to lose his 'spark'. This morning he refused his food, for the first time ever in his life, then collapsed, and was struggling to breathe. I rushed him to the vet, who put him to sleep immediately while I stroked him. My poor brave boy, we will miss him so much. :((

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cozietoesie · 17/12/2013 13:49

So sorry, Theres. Sad

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thecatneuterer · 17/12/2013 14:03

I'm so sorry

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ElectricalBanana · 17/12/2013 14:03

Oh crikey that's made me cry

It's hard when we lies a furry friend. We lost 18 yr old lady in September and I am still delicate (hence the cry)

He was lucky to have you as his cat mummy. I agree it's not fair putting them through tests etc - my flower hated the vets so we went only if really necessary.

Big un mumsnetty hugs x

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Theresadogonyourballs · 17/12/2013 14:19

Thank you so much for your kind words, it means a lot. Am trying not to cry at work! (Unsuccessfully!)
Even though I know his time had come, it doesn't help the pain Sad
ElectricalBanana I am so sorry for your loss too. Xx

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TheBunsOfPanettone · 17/12/2013 14:28

Theresadogonyourballs any chance you can get the afternoon off? Or tomorrow perhaps?

I know it can be difficult and work colleagues don't always understand, but you are going through a bereavement.

I am so sorry to hear about your darling Olly. It won't be much consolation now but what a happy life he had with you. Not many people would take on a feral kitten, and you took him in, cherished him, loved and cared for him right to the end.

I lost my two oldies this year too Sad

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Theresadogonyourballs · 17/12/2013 15:00

The Buns - thank you for your kindness. Luckily there is only me and my boss here, who is being very kind. I'm finishing early too, and after Thursday I am off for Xmas. Poor DH is on a course this week which he has to attend; he is coping by trying not to think about it til later, bless him.
I really hope I gave him a happy life, he wasn't the most affectionate cat in the world, but he always seemed content. He wouldn't get on your lap, but he liked to sit next to me on the sofa and have his cheeks rubbed while he purred. He loved sitting on 'his' bench in the garden, just enjoying the breeze. We are having him cremated, so I will put his ashes under his bench, with a little plant. X

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Theresadogonyourballs · 17/12/2013 15:02

Sorry Thebuns, I meant to say I am so sorry for your losses too. My other girl is 15, with diabetes and hyperthyroidism, so I'm terrified she's going to leave us as well Sad.

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timtam23 · 17/12/2013 17:24

So sorry Theresa - I'm sure he had a very happy life with you - a far far better & longer one than if he had remained feral.
It's really hard losing a cat, one of my oldies was put to sleep 3 months ago and I still shed a few tears from time to time. I have another ailing old cat & like you am dreading losing him too.

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cozietoesie · 17/12/2013 17:32

Sitting next to you on the sofa and allowing his cheeks to be rubbed are signs of great love from a cat - especially from one who was a feral kitten. He'll have had a great life with you.

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Theresadogonyourballs · 18/12/2013 00:33

Thank you timtam and cozietoes. X

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