We have three cats who all get along well, two laid back characters and a Burmese who tends to be highly strung but great fun. Three days ago my daughter, who does voluntary work with local vet pleaded to take home a lovely young cat who was abandoned there by someone.
All the shelters were full and the alternative was not good. What could I say? Well the two others are already able to tolerate being near him without hissing etc but my poor old burmese boy is going around hissing and growling even although he we are not letting him close to the newcomer.
He is even growling at the two others. He is so unhappy and I feel awful about it. How long should we give it before we say it's not working. I should not have looked at internet which talks about behavioural problems, spraying etc.
I am now worrying that we did the wrong thing and what will become of the new cat who is really gorgeous if we have to give him back.
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claretandcheese · 18/06/2011 02:29
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