Hi, will try to get to the point without going on too much. Want to know whether I'm overly anxious/misread this situation or not.
Ddog is indifferent to other dogs if they are not bothering her and will occasionally greet some dogs excitedly if they don't approach her first. She will air snap/bark if dogs get in her face or chase her. She also gets her hackles up whenever aroused/scared/excited. I tend to notbother trying to get her to play with others as she doesn't seem interested.
So, we were with friends at a pub beer garden. Ddog had met 2 friends dogs on a walk long time ago with no problems, we had even had dinner at one friends with the one of the dogs in the same room, not playing but both laying in the same room with the odd bark at each other. Dh wanted them all to play (even though ddog never wants to play with dogs) one dog came bounding over in the car park whilst ddog on lead, as she isn't good on the lead I let it go. This dog was chasing mine all over the place and then another got added to the mix, they then got enclosed onto the grass area. Ddog was running away with full hackles up and making some strange whining noise, both dogs were chasing her and she turned and growled, both dogs then seemed to be growling at her and one jumped on her. I don't know whether they were snapping at each other but they were both growling. The owner started asking for help from others saying they were fighting but every time I tried to separate them one dog kept jumping on mine. I finally got in the middle and took my dog through a gate to separate them. One dog stayed in there and another got taken inside. Dh then comes out from inside after hearing all the noise and proceeds to put them both together again as he says they were playing and just sorting out the 'pecking' order. They started doing the same then dh shouted, separated them and then they just seemed to roam around separately for a minute before I took ours out.
Dh said I overreacted and if they were going to fight we wouldn't have been able to separate them, they were just playing and were fine once dh stepped in so obviously sensed we were nervous. The way I saw it was that ddog was in a situation she wasn't happy with and was trying to warn this dog. They may have started up again had I not taken her out. She may well have sensed my nerves but when the owner is shouting for help and saying they're fighting I take it as that as she knows her dog better than I do and, although ddog has never bitten I see the snap and growl as warnings and that she may bite if provoked further.
We have had this a few times and we always disagree, I would just hate for ddog to be put in what I perceive to be stressful situations for her and it to escalate to the point someone is hurt.
Am I being over dramatic?!
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EllieandAnna · 17/04/2016 22:06
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