I used to take both of my DDogs to a lovely training club. Just one lady (We'll call her A), but she had lots of contacts in the dog training world, and often organized one day taster workshops in all sorts of things (like Heelwork to Music, Agility etc). All clicker / reward based training. We started when DDog 1 was 9 months (Having moved from a different puppy class), DDog 2 started when we adopted her aged 2. Some of the training got a bit "samey", but on the whole it was great. Then, last summer, DDog 1 started getting really grabby with food. A decided we needed to "sort things out" and proceeded to try some new "techniques" that she'd learned. I didn't like what she was doing, and when she grabbed him by his collar and pulled him to the ground I told her to stop, that he was scared. She laughed and said I was over-reacting, so I took both dogs and walked out. I never heard from her again.
I started looking around for a new club. There's a real shortage of decent trainers around here. We tried another club, and it was really good - but unfortunately the lesson my dogs needed to be in (it was graded) was late in the evening, and I wasn't getting home until 11pm. With a none-sleeping toddler and having to get up at 5.30am for work I just couldn't do it.
There was only one club left to try (all others were punishment based). I wasn't overly keen as the lessons were only 30 minutes, which didn't seem enough, but I decided to give it a try. I worked the dogs in separate classes so I had 1-2-1 time with each one. It was OK. The training techniques were out of date (no clickers, trainer felt "good dog" was sufficient reward, the occasional aversive technique when a dog "misbehaved"). I decided to stick with it because my dogs were already well trained so I could just use the space to carry on with my own thing. I told the trainer I would not be using any punishment, and that I didn't want anybody else to handle my dogs. He agreed.
A couple of weeks later the trainer asked if I'd consider taking on training a class myself. I agreed, however it's become quite clear that our methods are completely incompatible. A few other members are also helping out, some are following the old school methods, some are following mine. It's becoming quite clear that this isn't working, trainer doesn't like my "new fangled" methods and clearly resents other people copying me.
Since then, DDog 1 has died (aged 6 - cancer). This was probably the cause of his grabbiness which caused the fall out with trainer A.
I don't think I can stay at the current club, I suspect I'll be asked to leave sooner rather than later, but the only other option is to go back to the first club. A mutual friend has spoken to me and said that Trainer A really regrets what she did and has "learned her lesson"... but I don't know if I can trust her TBH.
Alternatively I could give up the weekly sessions altogether and keep an eye out for short courses / workshops, which do crop up occasionally. My house is small but I do have a good sized garden so could do regular training at home.
Any advice?
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LetThereBeCupcakes · 31/03/2016 09:42
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