This is a bit of a long post so please bare with me! I am absolutely desperate for some advice regarding my partners dog and the soon to be birth of our first child together. He moved in a couple of months ago along with his 9 year old male border collie. I feel like I'm at the end of my tether and I'm terrified of what it's going to be like when the baby is born in 6 weeks time.
I'll start with a bit about the dogs past; he was bought from dogs r us by his original owners. They couldn't cope with him so gave him to someone else, new owners couldn't cope either so gave him back to the original ones. They decided to rehome him again so my partner then had him when he was 18 months old. Lived with his ex and dog until they split and then it was just him and the dog until we met a couple of years ago.
Now the dog is an absolute nightmare! Here's a few of his 'problems':
-Recall is none existent
-Pulls on the lead
-Tries to herd everything that moves including cars and people
-constantly jumps up at the tv
-barks at every little noise
-demands attention all the time
-begs for food
-goes mental at other dogs
-will only sit after telling him to do so numerous times
-he's very dominant
-growled/nipped at me and my partner
-growls/barks when anyone tries to leave the room
-he's very jealous if my partner comes near me
And they are only the things I can think of off the top of my head! BUT the thing that is really worrying me is his reaction to babies and the way he tries to herd my 12 year old son. Whenever he sees/hears a baby he barks/whines/growls and tries to lick/sniff it and goes beserk if he isn't allowed near. Even if the baby is on the tv his reaction is just as bad. Obviously being due to have a baby soon I'm constantly worrying what he will be like. My dad (who has had/trained working dogs for years) says he wouldn't let him in the same room as the baby for a second. I just don't know what to do? My partner treats him like his baby and I don't think he realises how much it's getting me down. He works long hours so it's down to me to look after him while he's at work.
I just feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall, any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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Nades84 · 21/03/2014 18:07
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