We have the opportunity of getting a puppy from a friend who's dog has just had puppies.
We have never had a dog before and have three DS aged 3, 6,8.
DS1 (8) is scared of dogs which seems to rule out a dog.
DS2 (6) dreams of having a dog and is extremely affectionate and I have absolutely no fear of him not looking after the dog. I know we all say that.
DS3 (3) knows the mother and loves her.
We have loads of outdoor space around where dogs can run free.
DH and I have jobs that mean we can be home a lot of the time. Possibly one day where we are both out but we can try and work around that.
We live in a flat - this is my biggest concern. We have a reasonably sized three bedroomed flat. We have a very suitable space for a dog, but also space for the dog to roam around (a little).
Selfish reasons:
Am I being over zealous in thinking the fact that the dog is a puppy that this could help DS1 overcome his fear?? We don't want to traumatise him or the dog.
DS2 is a loner and I really think a dog could help him.
These are not the sole reasons, i do think we could give the dog a good home but don't want to do anything that might not be right for all involved.
Apart from whether we should/shouldn't I would like some advice on if we do what we should consider.
I am going to have a coffee with my friend, the owner and go and see them so will pick her brains and if we are not suitable then she won't let us have one anyway.
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CircassianLeyla · 13/10/2013 21:44
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