A family in turmoil here :(
DH has just got back from walking the dogs (2 working cockers, both boys, 5.5 yrs and 7 mths)
The older one has always had issues having come from a bad home (the puppy that you know you shouldnt buy but do anyway just to get it away) Lately he has started to bowl other dogs over in quite an aggressive manner. Most of his life he has seemed quite unpopular with other dogs, often being popped at by others because his body language is just wrong and he seems to lack the niceties of canine company. It seems like he's finally had enough and has started to pre-empt attacks by bowling in first (today completely unprovoked on two occasions) Thankfully no teeth but his intention is clear. Until quite recently he always kept his distance from other dogs, actively distancing himself from them rather than seeking them out.
DH now refuses to walk him, is upset and mortified and is all for getting rid of him. While I know he's upset and he is being an arse he comes from a farming background where the dog would be shot after the second episode, behaviour like that would simply not be tolerated. The idea of behaviourists, muzzles and other pro active methods is as alien to him as flying to the moon though he is still being an arse We live in a small village and apparently we will now be earmarked as "undesirable to be around"
So what to do?
Apparently I am in charge of dog walking now. I currently do the bulk of it anyway so no big deal really. I should add that I have never experienced this though I tend to walk early morning when I finish work so rarely meet anyone else.
Behaviourist? The one local to us has a dog whose behaviour is worse than ours so not too hopeful on that score Lead walking is a nightmare though his recall is very good. Apparently other dogs approach him while he's on the lead and he has a go, DH will not acknowledge that in this situation he is not to blame if a dog approaches ours when he is on a lead.
Why has this suddenly escalated and can it be rectified? In all honesty I cannot see DH spending another 7 or 8 years pussyfooting round with a dog he cannot trust (for the record he considers a dog that needs to be kept on a lead around others as the epitome of Hell)
Clearly work needs doing on both DH and DDog, advice about DDog would be appreciated, advice about DH, I guess I know what you will have to say about that already
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<sigh> It seems we now have one of "those" dogs :(
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