By Caligula on Thu 18-Jan-07 11:30:46
Responding to that last post on the other thread.
Basically Strawberrysnowflakes, the implication of your observations is that someone who walks around with good posture, grace and confidence, should stop doing so in order not to make less beautiful graceful confident women, feel angry and jealous of her. In other words, it's blaming the victim of aggression for being beautiful.
If Shilpa would complain about the size of her butt, or her breasts, or how awful her hair is, they'd like her better because an expression of physical inadequacy is an automatic "in" in our culture, to a bonding with other women. Someone who is seen to be happy with herself, is not admired, she's resented. Interesting this.
Caligula..firstly, i have a different opinion to you, stop trying to ram yours down my throat and assuming what i 'mean', dont read into it, just read what i have said.
secondly I DID NOT SAY that she should be something she is not ie effing and blinding and talking about ungodly stuff with some of the others, i also said the girls are out of order, i was mearly trying quite badly it seems to explain the girls are jealous of her beauty and success, i was not saying she should hide under a blanket, just trying to explain in my veiw why they are doing this, not condoning it, nor saying they are right, but saying what i see same as everyone else.
I do not think she is victim of racial abuse, but spiteful, bitchy and unneccesary comments by some people.