Yes you are right sinister that made uncomfortable viewing (the manhandling).
I'm guessing it's difficult to strike a balance between the normalising of the manhandling of women and keeping dramatic integrity. Those shaved monkeys (Phil & Jack) would, sadly, behave in that way I believe.
I like Fatboy he is a funny guy. Poppy is annoying. It isn't Derek. His style is more likely to be wham bam thank you mam. He would take pleasure in getting what he wanted and thendestroying and humiliating Kat because that is the type of tw4tface he is.