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Dh has had a huge row with dsd who is nearly 17.
He confronted her about not going to college and quitting her saturday job, and she retaliated by telling him not to bother visiting her. He asked her if she really meant it, she said yes, so he called her bluff and didn't go to see her. She then had a huge row with her mum, swore and shouted and her, and decided she was leaving home ofr a few days.
The following week he visited as usual, she had left him a note demanding her pocket money. He knocked on her bedroom dr and explained that he said he wouldn't do this unless she apologised ot her mum and stopped swearing at her, and her brother (dss) and dh, amongst others. Dsd laughed, turned up her music, and turned her back.
Dh repeated this, then left her room.
At which point she lunged ta him, tried to push him over, then began thumping him.
He walked away and told her not to do it!
She ran out of the house and tried ot key his car, then started swearing and shouting at him.
Dh eventually left as dss was v v upset and his mum (dh's ex)felt it best he go.
To cut a long story short, dh has told dsd that she has ot apologise.
She refuses and says he has to apologise.
She ha s also said she won't have anyhting else to do with him unless he gives her £250 (which she "won" for her GCSE results). Dh says he won't, but that he will pay for her driving lessons in bulk.
What on earth happens now?
Dh is stubborn and says that this behavioour has gone on for too long. His mum and dad agree. His ex also agrees.
Dsd is adamant that she wants nothing more to do with him unless he gives her the money.
Help!!!!!!!!
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DH huge row with DSD - what now?
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advicewelcomed · 03/12/2009 17:20
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