It's so hard sometimes to know if you have done the right thing -grrr.
Yesterday evevning 12 yo dd was being quite stroppy, she was watching a video in the playroom and was asked to pull over the curtain ,she gave out about this and wouldn't do it, then she kicked the coffe table out of the way when she eventually got up to do it.
This just drove me mad and I told her to go to her room, anyway, I ended manhandling her up to the bedroom and she hit me about the head quite hard while I was doing it.
I was really upset and shocked over this and I just don't know what to do about it. I don't think I was being too rough when I was trying to get her to go to upstairs , I just didn't know what else to do to get her up there.
Although when I got her to her room I did push her onto the bed as I was so annoyed about her hitting me and she started screaming like a banshee, I'm sure if anyone heard they would have thought she was being murdered.
I feel bad that I manhandled her. What do you do though ? Should I just have left her and let her get her own way - I felt that I couldn't do that.Her slapping me has really got to me though ,although I also think she is getting too old to be physically moved about like I would with my 5yo.
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LovesTents · 14/11/2008 10:13
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