DS (14, going on 15) wants to be a vet. He has wanted to be a vet since he was about 3. He is devoted to animals and there isn't much he doesn't know about them.
However, he has always been "a handful" too. He was in and out of trouble all the way through primary school, on behavioural reports, charts, sticker systems. In trouble for fighting, banned from hot dinners because he couldn't behave, almost suspended from school in year 6...under achieving throughout.
Secondary school has been the same, always in trouble, truanting, fighting, being cheeky, messing around, never having homework in on time, again under-acheiving despite the fact that every teacher I've spoken to (from primary to secondary) have said he is highly intelligent, he just doesn't want anyone to know it.
Anyway he is due to go up into year 10 next week. He has been given all of his options as the teacher knows he is capable. He wants to go to an animal college/agricultural college when he is 16, its just outside of the city border so he would probably have to board but I'm not sure they'll take him they'll take one look at his school records and think he's having a laugh. I know there is nothing he takes more seriously than animals but how do I get through to him that these next two years at school are VITAL if he wants to get into this college?? He says he will change his ways from next week as there is nothing he wants more than to be a vet but I know as soon as he's back with his mates he'll forget it again.
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Boots1 · 31/08/2008 18:26
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