ok so my lazy 17 year old son has jacked in college to begin a different course in sept fair enough,has also jacked in his weekend job and doesnt start his new one til august so he wont get any money or ema payment til september.
in the meantime his girlfriends mum is struggling financially and wants me to pay her rent and her dh as he stays there most nights and eats all his meals (well most of them there)
i dont mind helping her out as tbh she has him at her house and why should she be feeding another mouth as she has her own kids too.but feel taken advantage by ds as he will be loafing about for 2 months doing sfa.
i said i will pay her 25.00 per week for food for him and give him 55.00 per month to pay his bus pass but we are refusing to give him any extra money as he should be doing something with his time.
he still eats here ,has some meals ,expects us to do his washing ,give him extra money etc ,etc
i have 2 other dcs and we rely on wtc as hubby is self employed and we struggle like hell ourselves.
why do i feel like he is taking the mickey out of us all.he hasnt paid us rent or them anything.
my dh says he will have to come home everynight and start skateboarding everywhere as we are treating him like a spoilt child and he is nearly an adult.
anyone else feel like this are we being soft
some words of wisdom would be appreciated
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lazy son 17 ,now i have to pay his gf mums rent
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wornoutbyarguing · 27/06/2008 11:56
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