My dd is 16 next week (gulp!) and wants a sleepover with 6 of her mates. The question is what to do about alcohol. We do allow dd to drink in social circumstances, ie if we go for a meal she would be allowed 2 alcopops, working on the theroy that if you bann it they will just try harder to do it in secret.
My first idea was to provide the alcohol and so I could control what they were srinking, been told that they will be bringing their own drink and other than searching them at the door, I don't know how I can stop this.
Second idea was to ring all the other parents and asking what their daughters wouild be bringing - I would appreciate it if another mother did this to me, but have been told that I can't do this as one of the girls is strictly forbidden alcohol - what the hell am I supposed to do about her because according to dd, she drinks more than any of them! Dd has informed me that "none of us are going to get that drunk that we will be sick", but we have all, who are older and wiser gone out with that intention and ended up throwing up.
so, I don't wnat to stop her having this and dp and I are staing in all night - albeit in another room - what would you do?
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16 yr old girls and alcohol - realistic advice needed
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hollybet · 06/12/2004 18:20
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