I badly need advice for how to deal with my 16yo daughter - things are getting out of control. I separated from her dad last year and he has moved 300 miles away. I am pretty much her sole parent now. She is doing the usual teenage things like getting drunk sometimes, weed, backchat etc, but has recently started being absolutely foul to me all the time - I mean awful - Ive tried to be nice, understanding, sit down and talk, offer to go for a walk or go out shopping etc, but she just turns me dow. Came to a head last night when I bought a takeaway and she just kept rolling her eyes, sneering, pulling faces and being so rude... I told her Id had enough, I wasn't going to keep giving her social- life lifts everywhere (we live rural), I wasnt going going keep getting up early to wake her for school (I usually have to wake her twice at least) and I said she couldnt go to a gig on Friday - she just kept turning up the music on her phone while I was talking to her, in the end I took it off her so she would listen to me, and she went completely mental!! I have never seen her so crazy. She went off looking for my phone to 'take something of mine', she was struggling with me to get it back. In the end i handed it back because I was afraid she would hit me or damage something. Then she just flounced off. I don't know how to treat her - she's obviously miserable and upset but she wont accept any of my help and just fights me
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