My dd is 16. I am a single parent...calm, loving and supportive.
I am struggling at the moment to cope with the constant demands made on me. She expects me to run her here, run her there, make this, make that, buy this, buy that at a drop of a hat. If I say 2 friends can stay over, she will invite 5. She is moody and everything that affects her is always traced to it being my fault! She is late for everything other than when it involves her bf, refuses to be parted from her phone and tells me how great her dad is, who she hardly sees as he doesn't make any effort to uphold all the promises he made during our divorce.
I don't like to be confrontational but if I ask her about any of these issues, she will always turn it around and I end up feeling undermined. Her room is a tip and she spends every penny she has on rubbish.
My boyfriend gets frustrated by the way she addresses me and her tone of voice. He picked her up on it once and she used the 'you're not my dad, you can't tell me off' attitude.
I am sure it's a phase of life, but wondered if other mums are having similar problems with their teen dd's out there. I'm just getting very worn down by it.
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mummyneedssupport · 26/11/2016 09:14
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