DD has been seeing her 15 yr old boyfriend for 2 months - it is her first relationship and they are "all in" the pair of them head over heels!
He is a lovely boy and hangs out at my house all weekend and a couple of nights after school if they have time .
My DD is trying to convince me it's the norm amongst others her age that are dating to have their boyfriend stay over and sleep in their beds.
I feel really uncomfortable with this and am not ready to allow this. Me and DD have an open relationship and she has told me that she will wait at least 6 months and until she is over 16 years old to take her relationship further. She said her and her boyfriend have talked about it and they want to wait.
I just feel that allowing him to stay over is encouraging intimacy too soon.
They have a party to go to 20 miles away on Saturday night and will be getting an Taxi home around 2am and as he lives a further 5 miles away she wants him to stay the night so he doesn't have to travel onwards in the taxi alone. I have said he can stay downstairs on the sofa - DD feels I'm being completely unreasonable and has now said it is a trust thing and has told me I clearly don't trust her!
I am meeting her halfway yet being made to feel like I'm totally out of order.
Can anyone else share what their house rules are on this?
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Onedayinthesun · 22/11/2016 13:46
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