DS has just turned 18 a few days ago and is having a gap year now. Plan was for him to work for 6-8 months and save money, then do some volunteering abroad before starting uni next year. The thing is he has been out A LOT over the summer and has spent all his savings, whilst doing very little to get a job. We have been giving him £16/ week pocket money and £10/ month for clothes. I have been telling him for some time that come September all money from us will stop and he needs to make sure he has a job by then. I will also expect him to contribute a little to household funds when he starts work. I really think it's important that he learns how to budget and mange his money responsibly as well as learning the reality of actually working for his money. Problem is DH thinks I'm being unreasonable as he thinks DS needs money to go out until he gets a job and thinks we should keep funding him. He doesnt want him to borrow money from his friends. I say continuing to fund him does not motivate him to work. Who is right?
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AIBU to stop pocket money for 18 year old DS
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dirtywindows · 31/08/2016 22:53
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