I just want to know if anyone else is feeling the same as I do right now or if anyone has been through this time and can give me advice. My daughter is off to uni in 2 weeks time, it's only a couple of hours drive away so not the ends of the earth and I am very proud as she achieved fantastic A Level results and surpassed all of her predicted grades.But despite these positives I am not coping. I can sense her excitement and I really want her to enjoy the adventure that is to come over the next 3 years, but even though the drop off day hasn't come yet, I'm in bits when I think about it. I've read some books on coping with this, I try to reason and logic through the negative feelings but I spent the drive to work in tears today and see no way I can hold it together enough to not fall apart when it's time to say good bye and I am so desperate to try and not make my daughter feel bad about going because of my own emotions. At the moment, I can't even type these worlds without crying, so can any one give me some advice on how I can pull myself together enough to go through this without being a total mess in front of her. She is our only child and quite mature so I am not worried about her looking after herself, it's the emptiness that will be left in our home when she has gone. I work full time, I am also studying in my spare time and have some hobbies and a supportive husband but I will just miss having her around as a person. I sometimes wish she had been a terrible teen so I would look forward to the new found peace but she's a nice person who I genuinely get on with and will miss. So far I have hidden all of this from her, but as every day passes and the goodbye gets closer, I feel myself falling apart a little more.
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