I find it hard to know when I am being fair, too soft or overly strict so I need help with this.
DD 18 was due to come away on 3-generation annual family holiday this Sat, and leave early to go to festival. She had made done grumbles but agreed that if she left on Tues she would go. She adores her granny (who has just bought her an expensive cat suit for the festival) and these are nice holidays. I have arranged mid hol lifts for her to and from the station and other arrangements took her into account (bedrooms, food).
She works 4 hours a week but hasn't saved enough for festival food and transport. For this and last festival I let her earn it by doing jobs I needed done.
She's just told he she's justt coming, 3 days notice. I an furious and said I won't be giving her jobs do she can sort out het own cash. Am I being unfair/ overreacting ? She is both kind and sensible but also blubdingky selfish at times....
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Beezles · 03/08/2016 14:44
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