Hello. mixed bag first time mum to a teenager. Would love some advice i've been theres and suggestions......
(my background: i'm divorced mid 40s no full time partner at home with us and no other children. Shes not a bad child but no angel either. i think just a little confused and typical teenager with a mental health issue and just come out as lesbian. i've got it all on my plate i guess?......)
DD has just turned 14. for last year struggling on and off (more on) with self harm depression and anxiety. receiving 2nd round of counselling at the moment
is anyone in a similar situation at the moment and how are you coping and suggestions how to be that extra supportive and understanding without coming over oh get over yourself its just hormones.
i'm nearing the end of my tether . could be fine one minute then the next down and moody and 3/10 on the cheery scale (as i call it). Managed to get her to a 4 before she went to bed. She self harmed this morning which broke my heart. i'm trying my best without getting the shutup you are p* me off response. tho she did say whilst doing her nails that she thinks i finally get her. i'm doing something right i guess. just i'm trying to get a handle on it but want to be better for her. work fulltime and try hardest to be there for her but repetitive pattern of sleep work/school homework dinner and bed.....
2nd bit of my bag - - homework and GCSEs. just gone into yr 10. please .... i would love to have some suggestions here how to cope with this! I really am struggling to keep it together as i dont want to see her fail and i'm becoming pushy and its backfiring a little i guess. i've put a reward system in place which she seems ok with. any encouragement / advice on being a parent on this. if she doesnt do the homework its her to suffer the consequences? tho she becomes immune to them. she got lots of detentions last term for missed homework and i guess i dont want her to go down that road again. its making me really stressed out and upset as i constantly fought with her senior teachers last year and received phone calls and letters from school.
Thank you to all in advance.
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