I'm very worried about my DS, aged 15. I'm not sure if he's very shy or has anxiety issues etc but he barely speaks to me or DH. He won't speak to other people, I have to answer on his behalf. He is just generally withdrawn. He says he has friends at school but doesn't socialise outside of school at all.
Just a bit of background. I split from his father when he was little. I remarried 8 years ago and have 2 young children also.
He doesn't have a very good relationship with his dad but does see him.
Just some examples of his behaviour:
The other day he locked himself in the bathroom but wouldn't call me for help (I would have heard). Instead he just stayed in there until a significant amount of time had passed and I realised he'd been in there for ages and checked on him!
He doesn't address me or DH by name. He won't call our names etc
I don't know if I should get him some counselling or if he'll just grow out of it. I'm worried about him having to go to college or getting a job etc.
What should I do?
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itneverrainsitpours · 04/06/2016 13:36
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