My son never comes to me and talks to me about his bothers yet he is always sharing with his girlfriend. This was never an issue as he is 18 and doesn't need to be telling his mummy everything. But today I found out that he has been feeling really low and depressed recently. He has a history of depression and anxiety and was taking medication that he came off of a year ago. When he decided he was going to stop taking his medication he didn't speak to anyone about this other than his girlfriend and one of his other friends but I didn't make a huge deal out of it as it was months before I found out and he seemed to be doing well.
Apparently he discussed with his girlfriend about going back on his tablets and she has encouraged him not to and to seek other ways to make him feel better as medication, in her words, "only works until you stop taking it".
She has suffered with depression too and never took tablets and she has been suffering with an eating disorder since she was 12 so she has dealt with all sorts of people and methods to beat her disorders so he sees her as some expert on all things mental health. Which obviously is not true.
It really pisses me off and she is only a child and should not be giving someone medical advice and my son won't listen when I tell him to go back to the doctor and start taking tablets again because of her.
How can I make him see that she doesn't know what is best for him and that he needs to seek help from the doctor?
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Cheeseaddicted · 27/05/2016 21:01
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