Long story short: Ds2 (14 v soon) has been having a rubbish year at school (independent, for information). In constant trouble for shouting out in class, constant rebellion, occasional violence. His grades have collapsed. He's had Friday detentions, escalating to a Saturday detention, now after another incident we are being called in to see the headmaster. I think this is last chance saloon before he is asked to leave. They won't want him entering his GCSE years like this. They have been very clear about the behaviour they expect and he is either unwilling or unable to comply.
DS1 and DD1 are at the same school - no problems with them. The problem isn't what school are doing. DS2 has real mental health problems. I suspect depression and anxiety. He's had suicidal thoughts. He is on the waiting list for CAMHS but that is months off. They are so hard pressed that he won't meet any of their criteria anyway. He sees a counsellor but I don't know what he is supposed to get out of it. At home, his behaviour is worse than school, if anything. His moods dominate the whole family.
I really do not, do not know what to do.
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I think school is going to ask DS to leave
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sighbynight · 29/01/2016 11:40
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