Have posted before but slightly new topic. Since meeting her boyfriend 6 months ago DD has not stayed home for more than two nights in a row. He has his own place. He's a very bad influence but that's not the issue. The issue is this constant staying over at his. We have no leverage. She could move out and live there (she's 17, upper 6th form). But she gets nothing done at his. No college work, no decent night's sleep, no decent food. I can see the appeal - own little escape pad, nearer to friends/college/work etc. But I don't think it's unreasonable to ask her to come home more often. We've discussed her living with him in an adult way but she says she doesn't want to!!!!!! I try to stay detached and balanced and I think I do a lot of the time (eg. lack of college work, constantly being unreliable etc..) but this one thing keeps sending me over the edge and we end up falling out again. Anyone else going through or been through similar?
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