DD is in a huge mess

(42 Posts)
Higuys22 Mon 25-Jan-16 23:06:08

She got asked out boy a boy she hasn't even met in person, and now she wants to break up but is worried about her reputation at school and that he said he loved her. someone help us x

Higuys22 Mon 25-Jan-16 23:06:49

Sorry by a boy not boy a boy, you can see how stressful this is

ExitPursuedByABear Mon 25-Jan-16 23:09:10

So she hasn't met him.

But he loves her.

How does that work?

Gunting Mon 25-Jan-16 23:09:21

Presumably the boy who has asked her out isn't at the same school if they've never met... How will it impact her reputation?

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RJnomore1 Mon 25-Jan-16 23:10:16

How old is she

Where did she meet him

BackforGood Mon 25-Jan-16 23:10:34

Eh? confused

How does it happen you get asked out by someone you've not even met?
Why would you accept such an invitation?

If she did, and then changed her mind, why would that affect her reputation ?

ExitPursuedByABear Mon 25-Jan-16 23:11:01

Oh no it's you again.

<backs away>

QuietWhenReading Mon 25-Jan-16 23:12:48

So she's formed a connection to a boy online and he declared his love for her and asked her out?

What did she say?

If she said yes and she's changed her mind then she should gently explain to the bit that she's thought better of it.

If she said no there's no problem.

I'm cindised as to why her reputation might be at stake though. How does anyone else even know about it? Has they been flirting in public in FB or Instagram?

Donge13 Mon 25-Jan-16 23:12:51

Meh

QuietWhenReading Mon 25-Jan-16 23:13:50

Exit is there something we should know?

Finola1step Mon 25-Jan-16 23:16:50

Just tell him. Then block and delete. Easy peasy.

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imwithspud Mon 25-Jan-16 23:22:08

hmm

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QuietWhenReading Mon 25-Jan-16 23:25:40

Ah.

I see how that might not endear you to your peers. In that case something along these lines should suffice

"It's not working for me, I think we should split up"

Higuys22 Mon 25-Jan-16 23:31:21

Okay thanks sorry if the constant threads on boys r annoying, wow what a teenage life she lives!

QuietWhenReading Mon 25-Jan-16 23:32:25

Why is this so stressful for you OP? It's just standard teenage nonsense.

ExitPursuedByABear Mon 25-Jan-16 23:32:29

Imagine.

FeedMyFaceWithJaffaCakes Mon 25-Jan-16 23:34:10

I think this is actually all about the OP.hmm

Lemonski Mon 25-Jan-16 23:34:33

Surely its easier to "dump" a boy you've never met than one in the flesh!!!

AnyFucker Mon 25-Jan-16 23:36:55

why do you keep getting involved in your teenage daughter's pretend boyfriend's ?

how old are you really ?

ilovesooty Mon 25-Jan-16 23:38:23

you can see how stressful this is
Not really.

IAmPissedOffWithAHeadmaster Mon 25-Jan-16 23:40:16

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Jezebel555 Mon 25-Jan-16 23:41:38

Errrrm not even a real problem? confused

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