DD17 had NHS braces fitted on upper and lower teeth a couple of years ago. When removed, her teeth looked perfect. She was given NHS retainers to wear at night. She promptly lost one (classic teen thing of taking it out to eat and putting in a tissue instead of the retainer box and tissue getting thrown away) and we paid for a new one. When it happened again, we made her pay out of her savings (money we'd put away for her). This time, the Orthodontist suggested a fixed retainer instead of a removable one for her upper teeth. We didn't think to ask whether one could be fitted to her bottom teeth and it was never suggested to us. Dd then lost the retainer for the bottom teeth and didn't tell us for a couple of months. By this time her teeth had started to move again and we made her pay for a new retainer to stop further movement. When she lost the bottom retainer yet again, she didn't tell us at all and when I found out months later, she refused to return to the Orthodontist because she was frightened about being told off. This was all around GCSE time and with other things going on, it was forgotten about (my fault). Her bottom teeth are now in a terrible state (completely crooked) and possibly worse than before. When DD2 had her braces removed by same Ortho, she was immediately given the option of free NHS retainers or paying for fixed braces for both upper and lower teeth. We were happy to pay as this seemed like a much more sensible option given our past experience with DD1. At the last visit with DD2, I mentioned DD1's very wonky bottom teeth and she said that she will have to have her teeth done again. She looked a bit shocked when I said that DD1 would have to pay for this herself, but it would be hard for us to find the money (could sacrifice annual holiday though). It is such a pity that we weren't offered fixed retainers in the first place, or at least after the first retainer was lost, but there may be a good reason for this (are they quite new?). Would it be better for DD to have this treated now that she is still a teenager, rather than wait years until she can afford it? Should we try and find ways to finance this? DH says it is DD's fault and she'll have to pay for treatment herself when she is older.
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Teen Dd's teeth crooked again after braces
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Etainagain · 29/12/2015 09:39
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