It looks very much as if DD, aged just 16, is acquiring a new boyfriend. He's not someone we know so we have nothing to go on. The problem I have is that DD's first boyfriend turned out to be quite nasty and I am anxious about how we do a better job of protecting her this time, without being too heavy handed about it. Grateful for any views on "house rules" that are appropriate at this age! I'm thinking, he's only allowed here if either I or DH is in, although of course I can have no assurance about the level of parental supervision if she goes to his house. I'm not sure whether to insist that they stay downstairs, or allow them to her room if she leaves the door open? I know she is 16 and I have to respect that she is growing up, but it is also clear that she lacks self esteem and does not necessarily have the strength to resist pressure to engage in stuff that she does not really want to do.
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