My DS16 has just gone out with two mates & promised to be back by 11pm. Not too worried, though I don't really like him being out this late on college nights. I know one of the two lads he's out with, but not the one who came to fetch him, who seems perfectly nice to me.
Trouble is, my ES18 tells me that the friend I do know is into weed. He also has a bit of a 'past' and has spent a couple of years being expelled from various secondary schools, ending up in a special school for those who would otherwise not be in school at all [can't remember what they call them these PC days, sorry].
He was also responsible a couple of years ago for almost getting my DS16 into trouble with the police when they were questioned over an incident involving a gun! The other lad was given a formal warning, but my son didn't as the police didn't actually see him with the gun in his hand. I should add that they were shooting at tin cans, not doing anything esp. risky.
I would like to give this lad the benefit of the doubt - having done his time at this special school, I'd like to think he's a reformed character? However, it worries me that my son is spending too much time with this lad and that they hang out next to railway lines and behind housing estates a lot of the time. DS16 says they are just hanging out, but after what ES18 has said, I am concerned. I know his family from school, they are still known to me and the whole family [esp the Mum] have a bit of a reputation lets say!
How do I broach the "I don't want you touching drugs of any sort" chat? In my household it's definitely 'no drugs' - I don't agree with "OK to try but don't get addicted" and I don't want to be too lenient. There isn't really any sign of DS16 trying it out, but who knows what he's doing when he isn't at home?
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How to broach drugs talk to DS16
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MrsRossPoldark · 23/09/2015 22:15
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