My just turned 15 year old daughter has just informed me that her and her bf had unprotected sex at the end of the summer holidays and there's a possibility she might be pregnant. I made her do a pg test and it was negative. Unfortunately she can't remember when they had sex (it was only once apparently) nor when her period is due. Trying to work it out she thinks it was during w/c 24.08.15 and she thinks her period was due at the beginning of this week. She's ridiculously blase about the dates. I don't know if she's telling me these dates because she wants to believe that the test is a true negative. If I take her to the Dr is there any way they can tell earlier than an over the counter pg test? When I was pg (many year ago) I remember my Dr telling me that the tests you buy over the counter are as good as the ones they use in the lab. Is this still true? I've told her she'll have to do another test on Monday if she hasn't got her period before then.
I am very calm outside but inside I'm raging and very emotional. I can't believe they have been so bloody stupid. I had the bf come down this morning and read them both the riot act about the dangers of unprotected sex etc. Ranted at them both. I can't quite get my head round the fact that my dd has had sex at all. Don't get me wrong, I know teens have sex, I did for heavens sake. But still, my dd?
Another issue is my husband, her dad. She's asked me not to tell him. Obviously if she turns out to be pg then I'll tell him. What about if she isn't? I've never kept anything from my husband before and I'm not sure I want to start now.
This was not how my Friday was supposed to start. :-(
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kjaugust05 · 18/09/2015 09:23
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