I have DD's 16, 14, 12. Oldest and youngest have always been superslim and sporty. It's just the way they are. DD2 is less co-ordinated and less interested, so doesn't have a sport she loves. She does school pe (1 hr p/w), and a youth gym session (2x1hr p/w), plus walk to and from school (15-20 mins each way), but other than that she does the usual teenage thing of spending lots of time on phone/screen, so she sits a lot! Her friends are into online stuff, so she doesn't go out with them much either, and when they do, it isn't active kind of things.
She used to be a slim-ish build, but is now carrying weight around her tum, bum etc. She weighs 9.10 (62 kg) and is only 5ft 3 (160cm), which NHS says puts her into the overweight category. She thinks she is fine as she is, didn't realise she was overweight till I showed her the nhs chart.
I have been treading VERY carefully around this, talking about healthy eating, moving more for about the last six months, and while I think she is eating better, and less calories than she was, she is still overweight. You wouldn't know from looking at her in clothes as she has slimish arms and legs and wears loose clothes though.
So, really don't want to get into calorie couting at this age, and I'm not sure where we could fit in more organised sporting activities as as a family we are pretty busy. Frustratingly, DD1 and DD3 can eat whatever they like in whatever quantity but stay superslim - in fact they can veer to being too slim, so we always have full fat cheese, milk available.
DD isn't happy now that she knows she is offically overweight, but I am not sure where to go from here. Words of gentle wisdom welcomed!
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