Hi,
I’d really appreciate some good advice as I’m at my wits end. My 16yr old DD has social anxiety, and she’s very shy. She wouldn’t hurt a fly. She’s always been a target for bullies, nothing major but I think things happened at school that she hid from me in the past. I know you’ll think I’m biased but she is very naturally pretty but she can’t see that at all because of her low self esteem. She left school last year with good enough grades apart from maths which she has a real problem with. So she went to art college, didn’t fit in, felt like an outsider so before Christmas I moved her to a sixth form school which seemed perfect for her and she began a course in print based media. I was relieved that she seemed happy, seemed like friendships were forming. A boy took a shining to her who had his own problems. He came to our house with her one evening and they seemed to get on ok but she just wanted to be friends and he wanted more. So he got heavy with her, said he wanted to kill himself because of her rejection which she freaked out about, became anxious etc. He became close to another girl in the class, they turned the friendship group against my daughter and now we’re at this stage of twitter bullying, he’s called her a bitch, and again she feels like an outcast. I’ve had contact with the school regarding this over and over again, she’s had mentoring etc. Her older sister has steamed in there ( as I’ve an elderly widowed father who’s been ill so I’ve been pre-occupied with him) and called the school to which action has been taken with ‘right-on’ discussion groups involving the culprits but nothing’s changed. My daughter is in a real state of anxiety now, lost weight, feels pressure with time scales for the work at school plus she has to deal with this bunch of idiots. What do I do? Does she change course again in September only for the same thing to happen again? What do I do about her Maths as it seems you can’t anywhere without a C grade and she just taken it again and got a G grade. My mind feels like mash potato ?
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LindieLA · 14/05/2015 11:37
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