I've named changed.
Because I check her laptop (Facebook and Google searches) I saw references to cutting/self harm. She's said to her best friend and the bloody 16yo boy she met she's doing it, and searched for movies about.
We've had a chat, and a cuddle, and I've seen her arm is a mess. I'm gutted so please don't flame me. I've told her I'm sorry she feels so awful, I love her whatever, but we need to get some help. She says the last time was 8 days ago.
She says she 'won't tell me why' unless her best friend is present. She says I'll think she's pathetic.
Apparently her head of year (8) had known about this since last month, and nothing had happened. Surely this is a child protection issue? Wtf are they playing at?
I need to know stuff. I'm going to see this HOY tomorrow first thing, I want the child protection officer present, then GP appointment I guess. I'm in an area known for its shocking lack of child mental health services.
I really need some advice please. My poor baby. I feel like such a failure.
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TigerWhoCameForGin · 13/04/2015 23:25
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