Hi, long time lurker here, not usually one to ask for advice but I am getting desperate after tonight. I had a call from the credit card centre to warn me about possible fraudulent transactions in the past week - turns out it was my 13 year old DS using my CC details to buy FIFA and minecraft credits online.... To the tune of nearly £60 .. This is the last straw for me. He has been stealing food/sweets/lying about things for a few years now, has very low self esteem, and very little interest in anything apart from his bloody minecraft... He isolates himself and has few friends. We have tried EVERYTHING to help him from banning everything to giving him complete responsibility and everything in between. We have intervened at school and he is being supported there. He is a twin and has always felt inferior to his brother despite our best efforts to dispel these concerns. I feel like reporting him to the police so that they can visit him and make him see the slippery slope he could be on but don't want him to have a record.. What's worse is his Dad is in the job. I am SO angry with myself - there must be something we are missing? Has anyone else got any experience of this type of behaviour? It's not a teenage/hormonal thing, right back from a toddler when he used to be frustrated and bang his head on the floor, through massive tantrums at 9/10 and a complete overreaction to small things, to now, it's always been challenging... The thing is, to the outside world he is a polite, hard working if quiet child, nothing tallys....
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06/04/2015 22:28
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