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Parenting teenagers has its ups and downs. Get advice from Mumsnetters here.

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Parenting teenagers has its ups and downs. Get advice from Mumsnetters here.

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dd went out at 10a.m and I don't know where she is

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longwaytogo · 31/10/2006 19:40

dd age 14 went out to a friends this morning to watch a few dvd's, I thought she would be home for tea but there's no sign of her. Her phone is off. I know the street where friend lives but not the house, i'm worried sick how on earth do I find out where she is.

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Whizzz · 31/10/2006 19:42

Can you find the friends name in the phonebook, if you know the street & phone ??

Dottydot · 31/10/2006 19:43

Do you think she's gone out trick or treating - there's tons of kids out at the moment where I am. Do you have any of her friends' numbers? Hope she turns up soon.

winnie · 31/10/2006 19:43

Longwaytogo, do you know the phone numbers of any of her friends?

I would call them all to check if she has been seen & to get an idea of where exactly the friends house is that you think she has been with.

winnie · 31/10/2006 19:45

Has she ever done this before?

Without wanting to panic you I would set a deadline by which if you've heard nothing you call the police.

I hope you hear from her soon.

longwaytogo · 31/10/2006 19:46

nope don't have any phone no's how bad a mum am i? But tbh she is a bit of a stay at home and only has 3 friends that she really bothers with.

She had band practice tonight and its not like her to miss it

I wouldn't think she would be out trick or treating as she has never been before and goes against what she believes in.

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Dottydot · 31/10/2006 19:47

Yes, I'd probably give it until 10pm or something - assuming she's gone out trick or treating, or to watch fireworks, and then I'd phone the police. Fingers crossed she's home long before then though.

longwaytogo · 31/10/2006 19:47

winnie she hardly ever goes out.

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DelGhoul · 31/10/2006 19:48

Would she have gone to band practice from her friends do you think? Hope she's home soon.

Dottydot · 31/10/2006 19:48

Would she have gone to band practice straight from her friends, or would she have had to come home to pick her stuff up?

Keep trying her mobile and if you know her friends' surnames it might be worth trying to look them up in the phone book if you know a rough area?

winnie · 31/10/2006 19:49

Do you know who she was out with this morning? Age, name, description? You could knock on a door or two in the street. Someone will point you in the right direction.

Whizzz · 31/10/2006 19:49

I'd try the phone book now before calling the police

longwaytogo · 31/10/2006 19:50

i've tried the phone book and no joy with that

she would have needed to come home as band practice is 16 miles away so its a car job.

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longwaytogo · 31/10/2006 19:51

i can't go out babies in bed dh gone to band practice, really thought she would be home by now.

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Gillian76 · 31/10/2006 19:51

I think you should try to contact her by looking up her friend's number.

You must be worried sick

Gillian76 · 31/10/2006 19:52

192.com?

118118?

Dottydot · 31/10/2006 19:52

Can you google her friends' surnames - long shot but something relevant might come up?

DelGhoul · 31/10/2006 19:53

can you conatct dh, is he at band practice, she may have gone if he's there. Sorry you've probably already thought/tried that.

southeastastra · 31/10/2006 19:53

try not to worry too much yet, i'm sure she'll turn up! my ds(13) used to frequenty stay out late making me frantic.

lipsbite · 31/10/2006 19:53

i agree with winnie - just go down and someone is bound to know them

lulumama · 31/10/2006 19:54

can you get a neighbour or friend to pop round to mind the LO while you go out?

winnie · 31/10/2006 19:54

dottydots suggestion has,bizarrely, worked for me in the past.

Dottydot · 31/10/2006 19:56

maybe have a plan of action to get you through the next couple of hours - sounds a bit dramatic but you could maybe phone local hospitals at 9pm to check, then phone the police at 10pm. Spend the next hour trying to find info on her friends.

Sorry - I'm a manic planner so this is possibly how I'd be handling it (in a not very calm way...).

winnie · 31/10/2006 19:59

longwaytogo, one thing I would say is that teenagers can lose track of time and perspective that means she will almost certainly turn up, unfazed and wondering what all the fuss is about.

DizzyBint · 31/10/2006 20:00

any news?

Dottydot · 31/10/2006 20:00

And when she does, make sure you get mobile contact numbers for all her friends off her, and a promise to always have her mobile switched on!

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