I read my daughters diary.... yes, that's right, shock horror naughty thing I've done and no doubt will be chastised for it but I also hope to get some genuine advice as I am really upset and have no idea what to do....
DD is 15, she has never been one to show her emotions or talk to me (or anyone else) about her feelings. She appears a normal, happy, well-adjusted teenager. She gives the impression that nothing bothers her. In her diary she writes that she is depressed, she hates herself, she feels alone, she feels like killing herself, she has no-one to talk to, she feels second choice to all her friends etc etc.... I also know in past months she created 'alternate' Instagram accounts 'emotional wreck'.
I have tried to talk to her... to give her an opportunity to tell me how she feels... but unfortunately she is like me - unwilling to express her emotions and tell people how she feels. My mother had severe mental health problems when I was a teenager and I could never speak to her about my feelings, so it breaks my heart that my DD wont talk to me.
So my question is... is this normal teenage ramblings of angst or should I be really worried? I obviously cannot tell her I read her diary as she will go mad and to be honest I know she will never tell me how she feels..... I'm so worried about her...
Just for the record other DD age 13 is the opposite and will talk to me about (I think) everything...
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I read her diary.. is she really suicidal? - please help!
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drholiday · 13/02/2015 09:30
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