DD1 is 13 and DD2 is 11. They are y7 and y8 and they are horrible to each other :(
They were really good friends when younger and even a year ago, they could sit in the same room, but since DD2 started at DD1's school things have downhill.
I'd say 80% of it comes from DD1 who is embarrassed by her younger sister who is often loud, inappropriate and immature (She has ASD).
But DD2 responds by screaming, crying and lashing out.
Both of them swear and call each other names.
I tolerate disagreements but once they get nasty or physical I tend to separate them and give them housework to do.
Things are getting worse, not better, and the two smaller ones are picking up some dreadful words and behaviour.
Has anyone got any brilliant ideas or is this my life for the next 4-5 years?
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FiveHoursSleep · 30/01/2015 08:12
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