DS1 is 15, he is full of great ideas, what he is going to do. He is bright, athletic articulate. But he actually finishes nothing.
I'm not sure if he is scatty & chaotic & just cant help it or just plain lazy.
School, he is really very able, but puts in minimal effort on paper, despite having big ideas of what he is going to do. Homework is the bare minimum. His teachers all say if every exam required a verbal answer he would be A*
He signed up for Dof E. great ideas for his volunteering & new skill, but it takes a bit of organisation, answering emails & getting the mentor to complete the book, that he has slung in his desk.. somewhere.
He is meant to be organising his work experience, his first choices (very ambitious) didn't come off, hes been given other contacts that he just hasn't bothered with.
He has a part time job that he loves, but he has to ring with his availability.. but he "forgets" despite having a phone permanently attached to his hand!
Its just so frustrating.
Despite giving him the time & space & offering support. He seems to live in constant disorganised chaos.
How can I motivate & make him realise that you need to get off your arse to actually make anything happen.
Cos obviously "I don't know anything & need to stop nagging"
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How can I get him to actually finish something, organise himself & motivate himself
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mymatemax · 07/12/2014 23:57
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