My 17 year old DS has friends (boys & girls - i think there will be about 8 of them) coming over. They're going out to eat, going to an alcohol-free party and bobbing in and out of our house before, in between and afterwards. We have rather a lot of alcohol in the house, mostly left over from a party last Xmas (we hardly drink!) which includes quite a lot of spirits. We also have some wine and beer ready for this Xmas.
My DS is quite mature in some ways & resonably sensible - although very naive - and we have a great relationship. His friends that I have met are lovely - but they are all teenagers, and there will be a group of them. Im conscious that as they are going to an alcohol free party, the reason for gathering at our place may not be unconnected to the amount of alcohol they think may be available beforehand at ours! And our DS has asked whether he could have some beers for the night.
Am I right to be worried about alcohol? Would I be naive NOT to hide the spirits? But if I did that, what message does this send about trust to my son? Also, would other parents think it acceptable for their children to drink beer at our house? (Unfortunately I dont know the parents to ask). I suspect they will all have alcohol on them anyway - but that is different to drinking ours! I don't want to be a killjoy, but Im also conscious that I have a responsbilty here.
It's the first time that Ive had to deal with this situation, so I am finding my way. I have already spoken to my DS about some ground rules but Id love to hear how other parents have handled this type of situation.
Some of them are also sleeping over, but that's a diffent challenge!!
This is my first post on Mumsnet BTW!
Looking forward to hearing any thoughts, suggestions and shared experiences (good and bad). Many thanks x
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Snagglybaggly · 26/11/2014 23:56
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