My dd is soon to be 17.
I won't let her have a house party, which is the only thing she wants to do.
My reasons for this are she has one last year and despite what I said about alcohol there was one puking in the garden, two in the bathroom, mess everywhere etc.
Also she's been to two parties recently where houses have been trashed. It ain't happening, fag burns in a non smokers house carpets, kids in the mother's bedroom? She won't entertain the idea of a party with no booze despite not drinking herself and oh yeah it's illegal.
She only has a small group of friends but wants a massive party where you invite "everyone". the whole thing is ridiculous.
Anyway, because I won't let her (btw she lives with her dad!) she is point blank refusing to do anything for her birthday, won't let me make a fuss, cook dinner for her or come to an event we thought she'd like. Unless I let her have a party!
As I've made clear, no party - she won't compromise on the basics so no chance but how do I play it now? she's basically ignoring me, and it hurts so much to think I won't be able to celebrate my only daughters 17th.
She really is the definition of a teenager, I wish we could get on.
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choochoomcgrew · 22/11/2014 15:23
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