Hello to all. I am new on the forum. I please need advice and lots of it.
Two weeks ago my DH niece whom is 17 moved in with us. She is from England and did not do her last year of school due to depression.
I only found out last week that she was self harming as well. She seems to be better, and is not on medication any more.
She now lives with us and will be in the future. (We are in RSA)
My worry is that she has no drive, does not know what she wants to do. Sits on her computer all day, sleep very late in the day, eats. When something is planned for a day it takes ages to get her going.
I would like to help her get more focus, active and with a bit of a plan in mind with what she would like to do with her life. But at the same time I realise that because of her depression we need to be careful as to how we come across and since our child is only 2 we have no idea as too what we should really be expecting from her.
Bottom line is she does not want to go back to school, her Mom ok'd this. She moved in with us. But seems have no further idea of what she wants to do and seems to be happy to just sit in her room unless she goes out with one of the family members.
Am I expecting too much? Please parents of teenagers help. All advice will be appreciated.
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