Can anyone advise me? Found out last night that my 15 year old dd, who was meant to be staying with a female school friend had actually caught a train to a city 50 miles away and was staying at her boyfriends house.
A bit of background : she told me she had starting seeing this boy about 6 weeks ago. Told me he was 17 & she had met him as he was a family friend of her school friend. Said that his mum lived in this city & his dad lived in our town. I am divorced from her dad & she & her sister spend Sundays with ex -h.
I was meant to meet the bf last weekend, but a family member is seriously I'll in hospital at the moment so it was put off.
I had a phone call from my ex -h at 9.30 last night saying that she wasn't staying at the friends house. He had called round to the friends as I had told him I was suspicious about her staying there. She has said she's staying over there a few times recently & hadn't asked if her friend could stay with us in return.
Anyway , the friend said she had gone to stay with this boy. I drove to the boys house( ex-h had got the postcode) & it turns out that she had stayed there 2 weeks ago too & he is 18! The mother said that he had told her dd was 16. She said she thought it was strange that dd hadn't wanted to give our phone number to her.
She has never been in trouble or done anything like this before, I'm so upset. It seems she's been playing me & ex-h off each other saying that she's doing one thing when she's doing something else.
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spongebob5 · 20/10/2014 10:53
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