I posted this in Chat a few days ago but nobody replied
At the start of this term in September he said he had £20 on his dinner money account so didn't need any more. He's never asked for more during this half term and if he'd had all the meals he said he'd had it would have been used up by now. He takes packed lunches 3 days a week. Sometimes the protein portion of the lunch is brought home and he says he didn't have time to eat it, or he says he had a bacon sandwich/sausage panini etc at morning break instead. But records show he never has.
Well, I'd got suspicious about him not putting any more money on his account so today I asked the school for a record. Since September 4th he's bought precisely one muffin, one chocolate bar, one bottle of water and one milkshake.
Every Thursday and Friday (school dinner days) he says he's had roast dinner and fish and chips, even describing what they were like. But he's never bought or eaten them!! He eats well at home btw.
Maybe its something to do with the catering arrangements for Year 11s that's bothering him. I will have to tread carefully wrt eating disorders because he keeps saying he's fat (just about 9st!) and he's worried about being "small and weak". He's had no significant growth spurt in the last year and many classmates are now well over 6 foot.
But how should I raise the subject without making him think I am angry about it? (I am, though, about the lying) and I wonder what arrangements the school could make to solve the problem? What do schools usually do for students with eating disorders?
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DS15 not eating at school and lying about it
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Mandy2003 · 19/10/2014 18:30
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