DS1 is 17 and so are most of his friends, they go to a youth group once a week. Anyway one of his friends is dating a girl the same age. I overheard a conversation between the boys that the girlfriend was saying that a boy from a local gypsy community had raped her. this was before ds1's friend and she got together.
Apparently the accused boy has said that its not true and that he is going to beat up the boyfriend and anyone else who is spreading the rumour.
I spoke to ds1 about it and he says that the girlfriend is well known for spreading rumours and being vindictive and that he didn't want to get involved and that he believed the boy not the girlfriend. I said that he needs to let her know that if this happened then she needs to seek help and support as she may not feel deeply affected now but may do in the future, and also that if its not true that she really can't go about saying this, especially for a boy from a traveller background who may have enough to contend with stereotype wise let alone with rumours like this.
Its been playing on my mind, so I spoke to a friend who is a youth worker and they advised that I speak to the youth worker at the group that they attend so that he can be aware and speak to people I need be.
I'm now concerned that I've done the wrong thing? I don't know the girl at all. I have facebook messaged her once when looking for my ds, but have never spoken to her face to face I doubt I could even pick her out in a line up.
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HelpMeGetOutOfHere · 16/09/2014 12:46
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